For You, not them.
There are places that you have been, and those that you will never go. It makes sense when people think differently. No one should criticize you for how you think.
Life can be long or short. But I rather make it short than long. Make a difference. It doesn't matter what difference it is, just make one. It doesn't matter if you become a superstar or the one that leads the team. What you want is to be "more" yourself than how you did yesterday, "more" comfortable of YOUR OWN LIFE than how it went yesterday.
Don't make them control you. Don't compromise whatever reasons for your personality. People who knows how to communicate may be very successful, but you can too. You do not need to be super social-able, like them. You do not need to be extremely good at controlling people, like them. You just need to be comfortable to express yourself in front of them whom you think is better than you, and in the end you will realize, oh no, you can be better than them. You know why? At the moment you start feeling comfortable of yourself. Your confident springs. Your ability expands. You automatically become better than you used to be. So, do what you want to do. Do to treat yourself not others.
When you're tired, rest, sleep, play a song and sing along. When you feel motivated, study, work, be hardworking and achieve goals. But not for the spot light up there, it's for your own qualities. For your own thoughts, your own material. After that, when people criticize, you will think. "Oh, it's okay. I'll do better for my own."
Remember, it's okay to collapse. Because "It's not how many times you failed that counts, it's how many times you climbed up again that counts."
Life can be long or short. But I rather make it short than long. Make a difference. It doesn't matter what difference it is, just make one. It doesn't matter if you become a superstar or the one that leads the team. What you want is to be "more" yourself than how you did yesterday, "more" comfortable of YOUR OWN LIFE than how it went yesterday.
Don't make them control you. Don't compromise whatever reasons for your personality. People who knows how to communicate may be very successful, but you can too. You do not need to be super social-able, like them. You do not need to be extremely good at controlling people, like them. You just need to be comfortable to express yourself in front of them whom you think is better than you, and in the end you will realize, oh no, you can be better than them. You know why? At the moment you start feeling comfortable of yourself. Your confident springs. Your ability expands. You automatically become better than you used to be. So, do what you want to do. Do to treat yourself not others.
When you're tired, rest, sleep, play a song and sing along. When you feel motivated, study, work, be hardworking and achieve goals. But not for the spot light up there, it's for your own qualities. For your own thoughts, your own material. After that, when people criticize, you will think. "Oh, it's okay. I'll do better for my own."
Remember, it's okay to collapse. Because "It's not how many times you failed that counts, it's how many times you climbed up again that counts."
Marvellous!!
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